Friday, August 30, 2013

Day 124 – Survivor Profile: Brian & Kelly Anderson

Brian & Kelly Anderson: In a world where the cannibalistic undead are looking to chow down on the living, it is quite easy to forget about the basic tenants of humanity. And the first element of survival is family. Family above all. I think all of us have banded together as a loosely tied family at this point. But let’s look at our “families.” You have Alex and myself, initially you had Janet and Kim, and then later you had Janet, Kim, and Brad.  Now, we also have Kasondra and Brad. Aside from those pairings, everyone else was alone. But then that brings us to when our rolling band of vagabonds rolled up in their SUV. They brought us Brian and Kelly Anderson.
Brian and Kelly had a home on the outskirts of Claremore and they were the ones that took in Justin, Erik, Kimber and Nicki when that quartet made it out of Tulsa. They stayed in the small community, scavenging what they could until it was time to move on. Their mantra was that slow and steady wins the race. That got them this far and it is good enough for me. I can’t place Brian in the same category as someone like Kanen or Lance. I wouldn’t categorize any of our people as reckless but they are more likely to be aggressive in a situation where Brian is much more calculating and defensive. I don’t know if this analogy will make any sense but if Brian was in World of Warcraft he would be a Paladin. If he was making a deck in Magic: The Gathering, his primary color would be white. For all my non-geeks out there who need an explanation, Brian may not beat you with his offense but you are not beating his defense. Some people attack a situation wanting to win and others defend a situation not wanting to lose. Brian plays a defensive game.
We thought we were pretty good and set when it came to our defenses before. Brian and his big brain came up with contingency plans for our contingency plans. He was coming up with plans for when things go wrong and I have yet to find flaws in his logic. Brian will be the first to tell you that he is not a front line guy. I don’t criticize him for that. I think it is a smarter man that knows his place in the world and acknowledges his weaker areas. Brian would be the guy back at base watching the satellite feeds and telling the Special Forces groups where to go. That isn’t my analogy. That is one that he said openly.
But what sets Brian apart from the others is that he is fighting for someone else. Not that we aren’t all in this thing together but Brian has a little more skin in the game than most because he is fighting for his wife.
Kelly Anderson is originally from Texas. (Being that the rest of us are from Oklahoma, we try not to hold that against her.) She and Brian were married last year and she moved up to live with him in Claremore. During their courtship, Kelly was one of those big muckers in some corporate gig and she couldn’t just walk away. So she was closing out all her accounts and such while they were planning their wedding. I think theirs is one of those rare couples that did not live together before they got married.
I will say this for Kelly. Despite working in a corporate office and seeming to be one of those professionals, she sure does know her way around a garden. She has been really instrumental in tending to our garden that we have created on the roof. This is a pretty cool thing because that is not an area that I am even the least bit versed with that sort of thing. I am leaving that in their capable hands. This has really helped her bond with Demo Judy and Jenny as both of them have really been working hard to get that off the ground. Kelly is the perfect example of the “Adapt or Die” adage.
While they have not talked a lot about it, I have deduced that Kelly has some family up north. It wouldn’t surprise me if at some point down the road, Brian and Kelly decide to pull the same thing that Wes and Kyndall did this afternoon. I could see them loading up and making a push north… But that could be way down the road. For now, I am very happy to have them within our group.